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Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

by Matthew Perry

2022•Flatiron Books•EN
About the book

Matthew Perry details the arc of his life from his childhood in Canada to his global recognition as Chandler Bing on the sitcom Friends. He documents the mechanics of his decades-long addiction, specifically his reliance on Vicodin, Xanax, and alcohol while filming major television and film projects. The narrative follows his numerous attempts at sobriety, including dozens of detox cycles and stays in residential rehabilitation centers. He describes the physical toll of these substance use disorders, including a life-threatening gastrointestinal perforation that resulted from opioid overuse.

This memoir is intended for fans of the show Friends and individuals seeking an unvarnished account of long-term recovery. Readers learn about the internal pressures of stardom and the neurological realities of chemical dependency. The book provides a look at how professional success and high net worth fail to insulate a person from chronic illness. Those who finish the text gain a clearer perspective on the repetitive nature of relapse and the persistent effort required to maintain sober health.

Reading profile

Inward-looking, contemplative and clear-cut; an easy read.

Best for readers like The Empathetic Explorer. Which reader are you?

Insights from Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing

“I was at the height of my career, but I was dying.”

Success won't fix a broken heart. Matthew had the biggest show on earth but still felt completely empty inside.

“You can track the trajectory of my addiction by my weight.”

Addiction is a relentless thief. It stole years of his memory and health while the rest of us were laughing at the screen.

“I was convinced that she was going to break up with me.”

Fear of being known can ruin the best relationships. He pushed away women like Julia Roberts because he was sure she would leave first.

“I have spent my life being lonely.”

Hospital rooms are lonely places for a superstar. He spent months in a bed while everyone thought he was living the dream.

Details
Published
2022
Publisher
Flatiron Books
Language
EN

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