Augusten Burroughs examines his history of romantic dysfunction, chronicling a series of long-term relationships defined by mutual resentment and emotional misalignment. He details his years living with an older partner in a state of quiet suburban decay and his subsequent involvement with a manipulative man who used wealth to obscure deeper character flaws. The narrative focuses on the internal mechanics of loneliness and the habitual lying people use to sustain failing partnerships. Eventually, Burroughs identifies a shift in his own perception, leading to an unexpected realization about his longtime literary agent and the possibility of a stable emotional connection devoid of previous patterns.
Readers interested in the logistics of long-term sobriety and the clumsy reality of adult dating will find this account useful. It appeals to those who prefer unvarnished descriptions of personal failure and the specific, often uncomfortable, details of domestic friction. The book provides a look at how past trauma dictates current behavior and how individuals eventually recognize their own worth after years of settling for subpar treatment. You finish the book with a clearer understanding of the difference between superficial infatuation and the grounded comfort of genuine partnership.
Inward-looking; a moderate read.
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- Published
- 2016
- Language
- EN
