
Yunjae is born with alexithymia, a neurological condition caused by underdeveloped amygdalae that prevents him from feeling fear, anger, or affection. His mother and grandfather attempt to integrate him into society by teaching him to memorize appropriate facial expressions and social reactions. This equilibrium shatters on his sixteenth birthday when a random act of violence leaves his grandfather dead and his mother in a vegetative state. Left alone, Yunjae enters an unlikely friendship with Gon, a volatile boy prone to outbursts of rage, and begins to navigate the mechanics of empathy.
Readers interested in neurodivergence and the biological basis of emotion will find a clinical yet human look at how people process social signals. The story attracts those who prefer stripped-back prose and realistic depictions of childhood trauma and social isolation. By the end, the reader understands the distinction between intellectual recognition of social norms and the actual physical experience of feeling. The narrative provides a clear perspective on how interpersonal connections form even in the absence of traditional emotional intuition.
Inward-looking, contemplative and thought-provoking; an easy read.
Best for readers like The Empathetic Explorer. Which reader are you?
Insights from Almond
“I have almonds in my brain. So do you.”
Yunjae watching the boy get beaten in the alley is chilling. It shows how empathy is a learned skill, not just a feeling.
“My cute little monster.”
Granny calling Yunjae a 'monster' was actually her way of protecting him. She loved him so much she wanted to claim his difference before the world could.
“People had told me that's what you were supposed to do.”
The way Yunjae memorized when to smile or nod is heartbreaking. It makes you realize how much of our social life is just acting.
“I want to know what it feels like to be you.”
Goni is so aggressive because he is desperate to feel anything at all. His anger is just a shield for being terrified of his own softness.
- Published
- 2017
- Publisher
- HarperVia
- ISBN
- 9780062961372
- Language
- EN