
Georgia Warr begins her first year at university with a checklist for the perfect romance, yet she feels a distinct disconnect from the sexual and romantic urges her peers describe. Despite her preoccupation with fan fiction and weddings, Georgia has never experienced an actual crush or a desire for physical intimacy. Parallel to her struggles with Shakespeare society and new dormitory friendships, she investigates the definitions of asexuality and aromanticism. The narrative tracks her realization that she fits into these categories, leading her to re-evaluate the hierarchy of her relationships and her expectations for a lifelong partnership.
This story serves readers who feel alienated by the societal focus on dating and sexual attraction as the primary markers of adulthood. It provides a specific look at the ace-spec identity through a lens of friendship rather than traditional romance. Readers understand that platonic bonds can create a foundation for a fulfilling life, gaining peace with the idea that self-worth does not depend on finding a romantic partner. The book clarifies the distinction between aesthetic appreciation and sexual desire, offering relief to those navigating similar confusion.
Inward-looking and clear-cut; an easy read.
Best for readers like The Empathetic Explorer. Which reader are you?
Insights from Loveless
“I am not broken.”
Society treats being single like a problem to solve. Georgia shows that the real problem is everyone else's narrow imagination.
“You’re my person.”
Pip and Rooney are the real soulmates here. Their chaotic energy is more honest than most weddings I've been to.
“Platonic love can be just as intense and life-changing as romantic love.”
Friendship is the highest form of intimacy. It isn't a silver medal or a backup plan for when you're single.
The Shakespeare play scenes show how much we perform for the world. We act out romance because we think we have to finish the script.
- Published
- 2020
- Publisher
- HarperCollins Children’s Books
- ISBN
- 9780008244125
- Language
- EN